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MLK Day 2008

It’s become a tradition for me to reprint this column I wrote back in 1996.  And with the new age of accountability that’s coming,  it seems to be even more relevant this year.

Recently I had a conversation with a black friend of mine and she told me something I found was a bit disturbing.   We were arguing over crime and how to deal with it when she told me, “Abdul, your attitude is typical of middle-class back folk.” I asked her to tell me what that meant. She then went on to say as middle-class blacks tend to move up the socio-economic ladder, they forget their origins, and treat poor blacks the same way whites do. I have to say I was a bit taken back by all this, because I was being attacked for my status in life which I had no control over. So I told her that she really needed to get grip and maybe the weave in her head was too tight and slowing the flow of oxygen to her brain.

I for one find it rather annoying that I’m accused of being insensitive just because I have a low tolerance level for crime, welfare, and people reproducing who shouldn’t.   And I’m not saying these problems are exclusive to poor black neighborhoods so get that attitude out of your head right now. What I am saying is that attitudes of individual responsibility, self-reliance, and hard work are not the exclusive property of white folks.

Why should I send my children to horrible schools and stay in crime-ridden neighborhoods? What possible point could there be to prove? That I’m a well-to-do idiot? I don’t think so. I’m sure there would be some thrill in moving my furniture in my house in the middle of the night so no one will see and steal it later that day while I’m out working. Many middle-class blacks feel a sense of guilt at having made a measure of success for themselves while seeing the fellow “brothers and sisters” left behind. The logic being older middle-class blacks can remember when they were shut out of the “mainstream” by whites and don’t want to return the favor.

I for one have no such guilt because there’s a big difference between closing the door on people because of race, which has nothing to do with behavior, and having serious concerns about people who haven’t learned how to honor the social contract, which does have a lot to do with behavior. This is not to say that poverty and bad behavior are soulmates; both my parents grew up poor in the rural south, however they didn’t hop in the horse and buggy and do drive-by shootings either. What I am saying is blacks who are doing well should not make excuses or feel responsible for those who don’t. I personally am shocked at stories I hear of people voting against their own interests (particularly economic) for the benefit of someone else, especially when the end result is counter-productive.

But I know what you’re saying, “Abdul, other ethnic groups work together why shouldn’t we?” I am not saying blacks shouldn’t work together. What I am saying is that if you’re in a balloon that’s going down, the first thing you do is get rid of the dead weight. I am all for helping people who want to better their situations, but the only way people will ever make any real achievement in this world is when individuals decide they want to take personal responsibility for their actions and take charge of their destiny.  And accommodating bad behavior is not the way to make that come about.

Thanks for indulging me. 

Truer words were never written.

  • patriot paul

    What is your position on affirmative action and did Obama benefit from it?

  • Taxpayer 834512

    We got a LOT of weight on this American balloon of ALL kinds.

  • Abdul Hakim-Shabazz

    Paul,

    Both Obama and I both benefited from Affirmative Action, but we would not have gotten our feet in the door of our respective careers had we not met the same standards as everyone else.

    In fact, we usually ended up working harder than our counterparts to prove a point.

    I think AA is still necessary, but it should be based on economics, not race. Someone from a coal mine town of WV needs just as much assistance as someone from the inner city.

    People like me and my children will have the resources to do just fine.

  • JW

    AA seems to be the new perjorative of my party when referencing non-asian ethnic minorities and that’s sad. While AA worked for me in the early 90s, I believe there was a point about 10yrs ago when it ceased to be as beneficial for ethnic minorities as originally intended; a middle-class economic status afforded ethnic minorities most of the same opportunities as their non-ethnic minority counterparts. In that sense, Abdul is right that economics rather than ethnic status should be the primary criteria for determining who benefits from AA. With a household income well in excess of $150k that is rapidly increasing as my wife and I move up the career ladder, there is no reason my child should benefit from AA.

  • Daw-g

    Thanks for that Abdul. Truer words were never spoken. Being a landlord I run across all sorts of societal vermin. They cross all sorts of demographics but I was tickled earlier in the year when I threw out a Black couple where the boyfriend started a rampant and very obvious drug selling business in one of my homes. I told the renters they were out and got into a verbal sparring match with the lady. According to her I was a “whitey lover.” I explained if being a whitey lover meant respecting my neighbors and the area and not being a contributing element to crime then so be it and to “…get the #$!@ out”
    .
    These tenants were on the hills of a white couple that moved out and left the place in total shambles. It took all but $7.00 of the security deposit to fix the place up. Those tenants had the nerve to a) Ask for their deposit back, b) Ask if I had other rentals available to them, c) Put me down as a reference at another rental.
    .
    Over the years it’s become my conclusion that vermin will be vermin regardless of race, gender, etc. It takes all types to make the world go ’round and we all serve a purpose in life.

  • patriot paul

    Thanks for the response, Abdul. I hope AA based on race becomes an antique. In 2040, whites will be in a minority. To switch from racial AA to economic AA makes sense on one hand, but still leaves me wondering which AA based version would be next after that and so on. It sort of throws merit out the window. Tough juggling act to be sure.

  • Pine Rider

    You said “…my status in life which I had no control over”… On the contrary, I believe we do have control over our status… If we are born into a well-to-do family, we can throw it away with drugs, poor character and/or laziness, for e.g. If we are born into a poor family, we can ascend through building a reputation based on hard work and good character… I understand the family in which we are born is very instrumental on the status we have, but in time we have ultimate control over our status through day-to-day decisions.

  • Rico

    Flash forward 13 years to where you support the most liberal member of the U.S. Senate to be our president. You’ve come a long way, Abdul.
    Liberal policies are the primary cause for the plight of the black American. And libs like Obama have sold the black community down the river offering hope, but no real solutions. Hope floats….until you flush it!

    Incidentally, I wonder what the mood of democrats (particularly black democrats) and the media would be if our first black president were to be a Republican. Never
    mind, I think I know.

  • Think Again

    Oh, Rico…go take a nap.

    Abdul, your column of 13 years ago is perfect today. Your career plight sounds exactly like that faced by Obama as he decided t run for president. Just a few short months ago, most of the established black political class, thought he wasn’t black enough. Remembe,r Jesse was recorded saying he wanted to cut his n— off.

    Their gravy train is over. Obama demands we all work hard, and he promises to do likewise. I won’t agree with many of his programs, but I do not doubt his sincerity or the fact that he worked hard to get where he is.

    The same as you.

  • Taxpayer 834512

    Maybe a step up from entitlements based on race or religion, but is AA based on economics some of “dead weight” to be jettisoned in recognition of “personal responsibility”? It will be interesting to see where the line’s to be drawn. I think ignorance is more expensive than education, but I wager a single mom and a check is the most expensive of all. Child protection as an entitlement, not childbirth.

  • Rico

    Obama only demands that some of us work hard so others won’t have to. And the only thing Obama has really worked hard on is running for office. Your idol-worshipping of this guy is so childlike, and would be cute if it weren’t so pathetic. Have another drink, TA. Better yet, just spike your Koolaid. Two birds, one stone.

  • Shorebreak

    In tribute to MLK, I’d like to remind everyone that Dr. King was a champion of many things, but most importantly, he was a champion of humanity and the dignity of life. He loved America and the American people but he hated injustices that were supported or promoted by US government policy. He was a believer in the philosphy that without justice, there can be no peace. I have no doubt that he signed his death warrant when he publicly turned his attention from racial justice to human justice in light of US foreign policy.
    .
    With that in mind, I’d love to see the teleprompter go down during the inauguration ceremony. :)
    .
    Obama would have no choice but to be himself, and the true Obama would come out:
    “…b-b-b-b-but-but, ahhhhh, hmmm, b-b-b-b, just one sec…. hmmmm, I-I-I-I’ll have stop for a second…”
    .
    If America can see on day one that they voted for another corporate mouthpiece who can’t form a logical, cohesive thought, maybe there’ll be a chance for some real change before this trojan horse continues where Bush left off.

  • Nick

    Enough: The Phony Leaders, Dead-End Movements, and Culture of Failure That Are Undermining Black America — and What We Can Do About It.

    http://www.npr.org/templates/story/story.php?storyId=5618023

    Bill Cosby – Address at the NAACP’ on the 50th Anniversary of Brown v. Board of Education

    http://www.americanrhetoric.com/speeches/billcosbypoundcakespeech.htm

  • Greg

    Rico and Shorebreak, I have questions regarding just how effective our new President will be. However, I do want to provide him the opportunity to make the kinds of mistakes you reference before condeming him. His history suggests you are right. But he has never been in this seat before. I get the feeling that he has “played the puppet” to get to where he is. It might merely have been a price he was willing to pay, to play. Now we will see. Lets hope for the best, but be prepared for the worst.

  • Shorebreak

    Greg – I admire your spirit. That was my attitude when Clinton was elected. And when Bush was elected. I guess you could say that after seeing the same players controlling things behind the scenes then and now, I’ve become somewhat jaded.

  • Facts

    “I personally am shocked at stories I hear of people voting against their own interests (particularly economic) for the benefit of someone else, especially when the end result is counter-productive.”

    This applies to the parents who actively solicit their neighbors and vote to increase property taxes for school projects.

    Throwing money at schools does not equal good education, especially when the money is spent on extra-curricular activities when classroom needs are not being met.

  • Daw-g

    Rico. You are absolutely right when you state the plight of Blacks are largely due to left minded policies. I’ve always said one of the most dangerous things to a Black man is a White liberal. :^) However, I didn’t vote for obama but I will “support” him as our president. That support doesn’t mean I agree with his policies or why he’s doing it (e.g. Prior to the election articles came out regarding his energy policies and running up the price of producing electricity. I think he’s dead wrong on that.) Hell…I think he’s dead wrong on a lot of stuff. Even if my support amounts to the fact I recognize him as the president then he’ll at least get that.
    .
    I’m assuming that’s what Abdul means. Or Abdul may be under the misguided hopes or beliefs that Obama governs from the center. He blogged so much a few weeks back.
    .
    >Obama only demands that some of us work hard so others won’t have to.
    .
    LOL…that’s funny. Very saddening, true, but funny!

  • Taxpayer 834512

    SB- You could well give Confucius a pause to ponder. But, if you’re somewhat jaded, I must be somewhat gray.

  • MissouriDemocrat

    Amen, Amen and Amen! Adbul I applaud your comments and we in the white neighborhood ask for more like you. What troubles me most is the amount of black on black crime that is rampant and standing on all our collective doorsteps. I am not supportive of young white females who go and have babies simply because the father was cute to them or whatever the reason either. Three years ago when my financial world took a turn I applied for and received food stamps for six months while i got my own house in order. I was appalled at the number of very healthy looking people (whites included) that receive public assistance. What we need is for the entire nation to stand back and see what our own individual responsibilities are and learn to fullfil them. Good luck at spreading your message. Change parties and I might also vote for you for president.

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